Holey, Wholly, Holy

Building a safe community where conversation and social justice meet spirituality

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  • Living Make Believe: Longing to be Real

    I remember the year I went from accepted to outsider. It was third grade when Jenny moved to town. She was different. Her clothes didn’t fit and she was a little awkward around other children. I loved her. She was quirky and had a wonderful sense of humor. I grew closer to her as other…

  • Homemade with Love

    My mom is an amazing cook and baker. I have memories of experiments we sampled for her cookbook and making Christmas cookies together. But one of the things our entire family clings to is birthday icebox cake. When Nabisco stopped making the chocolate wafers this past year, I had to improvise and bake my own,…

  • Ache for Home

    Home can mean so many things. I met with a group of people on Thursday who embody home – not the one they were born into, but the one they have created. And they welcomed me, a stranger, into their midst. They were authentic and enjoyed good “dad” jokes (although I certainly wouldn’t have told…

  • Reimagining a Ruptured Faith

    When I was little, I was taught by the church that our beliefs led to the only true faith. Other people may have believed differently, but how I lived as a Christian was the only way to get to God. I never really got that. I mean Jesus was a Jew and Islam grew out…

  • What’s in a name? Part 3

    There’s power in community. Coming together with one purpose, be it snorkeling or running or a campfire or book club or whatever gives a sense of belonging. It’s something most humans long for – kind of like the image above – “like” bagels go in “like” containers! And don’t they look neat, orderly and delicious?!…

  • Looking for Community

    Do we have to be in church to find a spiritual home? When I was a little girl I loved going to church. Church was where my friends were. The grown ups surrounded us with care and taught us what it meant to live in community. There were chocolate eggs to be made at Easter,…

  • Seeking Community: Am I Alone?

    One of the best parts of my June was attending Pride festivals. A dad came to the PFlag booth to chat at one of these events. As usual, I was wearing my clergy collar and Pride hat and the absolute best tie dyed for Pride overalls! We talked for quite some time. Toward the end…

  • Seeking Community: Juneteenth

    Five years ago, I had never heard of Juneteenth. Now it is a federal holiday. We live in our own bubbles, surrounded by our own little world. I’m sure I had heard the history of the Emancipation Proclamation, including the slow nature of that proclamation making its way into Texas, but it wasn’t something that…

  • Seeking Community: Hats

    “Why do I have to wear so many things on my head?” – Amy Grant, “Hats” Many years ago, singer/songwriter Amy Grant had a song called “Hats”. The song is about how we are different things to different people – parent, child, coworker, friend, etc., depending on where we are. In the Bible from the…

  • All Creatures Great & Small

    When I was little, our house was full of animals – dogs, cats, fish, guinea pigs – there were so many! My dog slept under the covers with me. There was always a cat near my finger tips. The guinea pig and I had great conversations. I can’t say I cared that much about the…

    revjodietz

    October 21, 2023
    acceptance, Pets, Unconditional Love
  • Homemade with Love

    My mom is an amazing cook and baker. I have memories of experiments we sampled for her cookbook and making Christmas cookies together. But one of the things our entire family clings to is birthday icebox cake. When Nabisco stopped making the chocolate wafers this past year, I had to improvise and bake my own,…

    revjodietz

    October 14, 2023
    acceptance, family, food, home
  • Ache for Home

    Home can mean so many things. I met with a group of people on Thursday who embody home – not the one they were born into, but the one they have created. And they welcomed me, a stranger, into their midst. They were authentic and enjoyed good “dad” jokes (although I certainly wouldn’t have told…

    revjodietz

    October 7, 2023
    acceptance, home
  • Summer Events: Paint and Ponder

    Have you been longing for a way to connect to others to share your spiritual journey, but been afraid of where to go to feel safe? Do you wish there were some folks to connect with and do fun activities while building friendships? Holey, Wholly, Holy and Paint Your Own Pottery are pleased to announce…

    revjodietz

    July 6, 2023
    Uncategorized
  • Bagel Bites: Nycole Fox

    For some, the Church has become a less than comfortable or safe place to be. But that doesn’t change the fact that people are seeking the Holy and community. Nycole shares how she has found God in the tattoo parlor, in her work and by opening her home up to be a safe space for…

    revjodietz

    April 11, 2023
    Uncategorized
  • Hello. My Name is Fred.

    It was a gorgeous Sunday late morning with a blue sky and not as cold as some weekends. I was walking to my car after my shift at the market with Bagel Joy. As I approached my car there was a Mercedes behind me parked at an odd angle and all I could think was…

    revjodietz

    January 12, 2023
    Uncategorized
  • Reimagining a Ruptured Faith

    When I was little, I was taught by the church that our beliefs led to the only true faith. Other people may have believed differently, but how I lived as a Christian was the only way to get to God. I never really got that. I mean Jesus was a Jew and Islam grew out…

    revjodietz

    December 8, 2022
    deconstructing faith
    deconstructing faith, faith
  • Hope in the midst of despair

    The pandemic did a lot of things to us. It caused isolation, depression, anxiety. But it also created space to do things differently. In the midst of missing visiting my parents and longing to be out in the world, the despair became palpable and I had to do something to change the isolation into moments…

    revjodietz

    November 30, 2022
    Uncategorized
    Hope, light, seeds
  • Bagel Bites: Dip Your Toe in the Water

    Holey, Wholly, Holy is throwing a Love Feast! It will be on Facebook live on Nov 9 at 7:30 pm EST. We invite you to dip your toe in the water and try out our community! What can you expect? We will be coming together on Facebook live because you can stay anonymous or you…

    revjodietz

    November 4, 2022
    Uncategorized
  • Bagel Bite: The Island of Misfit Toys

    I loved the Rudolph movie as a child. And I particularly like the Island of Misfit Toys. Rudolph ends up in this space with a whole bunch of toys that feel like they don’t fit in. The burden on their spirit is astounding. They all wish for something to be that cannot be because others…

    revjodietz

    October 31, 2022
    Uncategorized
    acceptance, community, inclusion, safe space, seeking
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